She has questions

For over a year now R. will occasionally take my finger and use it to point at something. She seems to be asking what the item is, so I tell her. It was random for a long time, she would do it once every couple of weeks.

A couple of months ago she started asking every day who particular muppets were on one of her favorite Sesame Street videos – A Celebration of Me Grover. Most of the muppets were just generic nameless characters. At about the same time she started to open Safari on the ipad and ask for Elmo. If you search for Elmo in Google and select images there are tons of pics of her favorite red monster.

It didn’t take long before she asked me to look up other Sesame Street characters and it became a new activity-her asking me to search for something and then looking at the pictures.

She’s also started watching some different shows-only on the ipad, but I’ll take it. She came to me with each show-– Backyardigans, Wonderpets–– nearly every single kiddie show and wanted me to name each character and look it up in Google.  I prompted her to use her own finger and say Who is it. This has become a favorite activity, so she picked it up quickly.

Now she’ll come up to me all the time, point at the picture and say Who is it. And then I have to look the character up in Google. I’ve learned all kind of names. I now know that Caillou’s mother’s name is Doris. How fascinating that she even wondered about that. She was upset that the boy in the cat in the hat has no name. And I’m amazed that she figured that out, I never even noticed.

She has been very into Sid the Science Kid, and one of his phrases is I have a question. R. repeats this, sometimes out of context but often she’ll walk up to me and say either I have a question or just question. And then she will ask a question!

An example of an exchange:

She walks up to me and says Question.

Me: Oh you have a question? What’s your question?

She tugs on my hand and says Come.

I remove my hand from hers (I’m working on trying to remove her touching me from her communication.) and say OK, I’ll come with you. I follow her to the stairs where she has a bunch of stuffed animals lined up.

She points at one and says Who this?

I say That’s a cow.

She walks away, retrieves the ipad, opens up Safari and points at the Google search window and says That’s a cow.

I search for cow pictures for her to look at.

The teacher suggested that I have her type in her search requests, even hand over hand. Sometimes she’s impatient, but after weeks of doing this it seems like she can spell some of her favorite searches on her own, I’m just sort of holding her arm for moral support.

 

 

Kindergarten Obsession – Questions for school tours

I’ve been compiling questions, and I have way too many.  This list does not even include things like details about the teacher and classroom, the parking situation and probably a dozen other things.  But it is a start.

  1. What are the procedures for drop off and pick up?
  2. What time does yard supervision begin? End?
  3. What is the school’s philosophy and practice regarding discipline?
  4. How many recesses do kindergarteners get, and how for how long?
  5. Are SDC students included for recess?
  6. If so, how are integrated play opportunities facilitated on the playground?
  7. How long is lunch? Is there also snack time?
  8. Are SDC students included for lunch in the cafeteria?
  9. How does the school handle supervision during lunch and recess?
  10. Does the school have assemblies? How often?
  11. What kind of school-wide activities are there?  (including music, PE, etc)
  12. What are the before- and after-school childcare options?
  13. Do SDC students have the opportunity to participate in the above?
  14. Where do pull-outs for speech therapy and OT take place in the school?  Do they have an office or dedicated area for working with students?
  15. How often do fire drills and earthquake drills take place?  How are SDC students prepared?
  16. How does this school/class encourage and monitor students’ progress toward meeting grade-level standards?  How does this apply to SDC students?
  17. What standard testing is done?
  18. Is there regular reverse mainstreaming scheduled in the classroom?
  19. Do they do disability awareness lessons for students without disabilities?

Thanks to all my awesome mentors from Support for Families and this great article with questions from Bonnie Sayers.