Here comes spring break

Spring Break has an extra day tacked on as a furlough day, so it started on Friday  The school department is trying to save money.   School actually ends for the year before Memorial Day, so it seems like we are getting into the last stretch before the dreaded summer.

I’m still waiting to hear about ESY.   I’m fairly certain it will not be at R’s regular school.   Which worries me a bit, but if they can finally finish the construction over the summer it will be worth it.

R.has been saying more spontaneously.   When I would normally prompt her with a word, I can wait and give her an expectant look and she is saying a word more often.  The word I prompt the most is come.  I make her say it every time she hand leads me.  She is starting to say something as she pulls my hand some of the time.  But with E. she’s doing it almost all the time.  A couple weeks ago she was saying what sounded like Da cuh then last week it sounded like Duddy come, and now it is really Daddy come.  She’s also saying Daddy no.

She is labeling things, which is new.  I mean just naming an object she sees, not saying the word because she wants it.  She has really only labeled numbers, labels and shapes before this.  Mostly she is labeling animals and food.

R. has also developed some separation anxiety or something like it.  She has to know where I am at all times.  I don’t think she cared too much before.  Especially when we go out, she is constantly looking for me.  E. will be pushing her in the shopping cart and she will be craning her neck trying to see where I am.   I remember during our assessment with the ABA provider for early intervention, the program director told me that R. should be referencing me (looking for me) constantly.    Of course she wasn’t.

Someone always leaves the gate open at the playground, and I usually spend most of my time trying to beat R. to the gate so I can close it.  A useful side effect of this constant looking for me, is that she is not running away at the playground.  She runs off and she comes back, especially if I don’t follow her.   She also used to run right for kids on the swings.  I think she really wants to know what it would feel like to be smacked by someone on swinging.   Lately she’s actually been just watching the kids on the swing, and I’ve seen her stop short so she doesn’t get run over by a kid on a scooter, or kids just running around.    It’s like I could actually sit down at the playground, if she would let me.

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