My pregnancy was normal and uneventful. R was born full term at 38 weeks. She was healthy and developed normally until about 13 months. At that time she became quiet, losing the couple of words she spoke and she stopped babbling. She started to walk at 17 months and then started babbling again.
As her second birthday approached it became obvious to me that she was not developing at the same rate as her peers. She had virtually no useful language, she did not point or hand lead. It seemed like she was in her own world. She spent a lot of time running loops, jumping, crashing and rolling on the floor.
She had evaluations with a psychologist and a pediatrician from the regional center and also from a private pediatrician. She was diagnosed with autism shortly after her second birthday. It took several months but she eventually received 25 hours of ABA and 2 of speech therapy per week in home.
It seemed like there were an endless series of assessments leading up to the start of therapy. R always seemed to be at her worst during these evaluations. It felt like each professional showed her an assortment of incredibly boring toys. She did not have the appropriate responses, so the professional would then present us a laundry list of deficits. I would ask if their therapy would fix this, and they would tell me that there were no guarantees.
It took a couple of months before she really started to respond. We saw improvement in eye contact and engagement within a couple of weeks and it keeps getting better.